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Stepmum: ‘I never saw myself as a mother-replacement’

A new study suggests it is easier for stepfathers to get on with their partner’s children than stepmothers.

The charities Relate and Relationships Scotland released a ‘Happy Families?’ report which shows that 65% of stepfathers reported good relationships with their stepchildren compared to just 57% of stepmothers.

Speaking to us as part of the 鶹ҳ’s 100 Women season, Alison Ishmael told us about her experiences with her eight-year-old stepdaughter.

Alison said: “I didn’t have children at the time, so I had to ask myself if I was ready for that sort of commitment.”

“I viewed my role as someone who is part of the family, but never saw myself as a mother-replacement,” she added.

This clip is originally from 5 live Breakfast on Wednesday 7 December 2016.

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